tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post113907256164656571..comments2023-11-02T06:24:53.204-07:00Comments on Alecya G's Plastic Castle: Hey - Wait- I've Got a New ComplaintAlecya Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03680200802683417322noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1139257058734361132006-02-06T12:17:00.000-08:002006-02-06T12:17:00.000-08:00I think it must be the winter thats doing this to ...I think it must be the winter thats doing this to everybody.<BR/><BR/>You know its going to get better, and its ok to argue with loved ones. I would be bored stiff if my partner agreed with everything I said. She also trys to boss me around so I have to fend for myself often.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1139248646534061252006-02-06T09:57:00.000-08:002006-02-06T09:57:00.000-08:00It wears us all down sometimes, doesn't it. And y...It wears us all down sometimes, doesn't it. And you are right, sometimes needing to pay the bills puts a roadblock in the way of doing what we love all the time. But that just means we have to look at how we can do what we love some of the time.<BR/><BR/>Octavia Butler talks about how she took brainless jobs, so that she could come home and write, write, write. Of course, she was single and extremely introverted, but even she, who gets to do what she loves all the time now, had to put in her time working in a factory.<BR/><BR/>I don't know where exactly I'm going with this...just know that I hear how hard it is.HistoryGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02670515936852776370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1139167693029672772006-02-05T11:28:00.000-08:002006-02-05T11:28:00.000-08:00In the end it's about you. I know that sounds har...In the end it's about you. I know that sounds harsh, but I thought for a very long time, I would not be able to live on my own, and raise a daughter, be financially sound. These things all take time, they take more than a month of time too. <BR/><BR/>Bottom line is there the most important person in this world is YOU, the only person you have to answer to or justify your actions to is YOU. YOU are the one who has to be happy. Happy w/ all aspects of you life. You will be again someday. You have a loving family and girlfriend. It looks bleak and hopeless at the moment. <BR/><BR/>Go work out, Go to school, go give your woman a hug and kiss. Crawl back under the covers, not alone but w/ your Beloved and be honest. You can stand up for yourself and I bet if you told her everything you just told us, she would understand.<BR/><BR/>*Hugs*shortyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09646106228386001678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1139120747820024782006-02-04T22:25:00.000-08:002006-02-04T22:25:00.000-08:00It's good that you speak up for yourself, but of c...It's good that you speak up for yourself, but of course one must be able to make compromises too, especially when in a relationship. You're making changes, and it affects Beloved, calling for her to adjust to the new you. You'll find a balance, both personally and professionally. It just takes time. I'm cheering for you! *hug*Aravishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07766002202567429153noreply@blogger.com