tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post114564050345690897..comments2023-11-02T06:24:53.204-07:00Comments on Alecya G's Plastic Castle: Keep it SeparatedAlecya Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03680200802683417322noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1145911916222855632006-04-24T13:51:00.000-07:002006-04-24T13:51:00.000-07:00you can't change someone. i tried. Enjoy Lillithpo...you can't change someone. <BR/><BR/>i tried. Enjoy LillithpooloozaMarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05874971733723914974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1145724006013221862006-04-22T09:40:00.000-07:002006-04-22T09:40:00.000-07:00I'm sorry to hear about your brother. Normally I ...I'm sorry to hear about your brother. Normally I would leave a comment with a suggestion, but it seems that lately I have been severly pissing people off.<BR/><BR/>I do have a suggestion on how to deal with your pain regarding your brother, but before I just post it on your site, may I suggest you contact me through my ON THE SURFACE Site on the link list on my sidebar. If you so desire.<BR/><BR/>I do believe I have some valuable information.<BR/><BR/>I wish you and your brother the best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1145695707516073472006-04-22T01:48:00.000-07:002006-04-22T01:48:00.000-07:00Sorry that you've been getting sh*t from the famil...Sorry that you've been getting sh*t from the family.<BR/><BR/>On the brother front, you can't really do anything unless he wants to change too. Just be a great sister and make it known that you worry about him, and would like to help. Even if it's not about him stopping just make sure that whatever he's doing, he's doing it in the safest possible manner and that you are there for support if he needs it.<BR/><BR/>That's just my view on it, but apart from doing some courses on Drugs and Alcohol I haven't had much first contact with addiction.<BR/><BR/>Latersademhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00370168900902377016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1145683203119395322006-04-21T22:20:00.000-07:002006-04-21T22:20:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry about your brother, alecya. Alanon m...I'm so sorry about your brother, alecya. Alanon might help you cope. Your grandmother is pretty much right though. Unless he really wants to stop, he won't. You can hope he finds his bottom and chooses to seek help. Your mother enabling him slows this of course, you're right. Telling him how worried you are is good. It might help, even if it doesn't seem like it right away. He'll remember. You might also research local detoxes and rehabs to make that info available for him if he's interested. But again, unless and until he's ready it won't work.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes one has to get sicker before getting better. I'll be keeping your brother in my thoughts, and you as well. *hug*Aravishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07766002202567429153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15111679.post-1145658679898558032006-04-21T15:31:00.000-07:002006-04-21T15:31:00.000-07:00I'm sorry to hear about your brother.I'm sorry to hear about your brother.HistoryGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02670515936852776370noreply@blogger.com