Tuesday, January 09, 2007

times are a changin

Hello. I know I've been gone since I came home from Kuwait, and I promise to tell you all abut it when I have a moment, but I've not got a moment to spare, there's one bit of info I have to drop by before I run off, the reason for my absence. Beloved left me. I'm okay. She's okay. We're still going to be friends, but after 5 years...well, it takes some getting used to being alone again. I am keeping the house, we've worked something out. And Shrugs is going to move in and be my new roommate, which will work a treat, because I adore him and I can *tolerate* his girlfriend, a little. :) I figure this is time for a change, and life is going to get better. It has to. On the flip side, I amexhausted. I forgot how tiring being single can be.

I love you all. I'll give you a more full update when I can.



shorty said...

Oh, I'm sorry to hear about Beloved and you. If you need a friend, you know how to get ahold of me.

Changing subjects....what will this years birthday tattoo be.

shorty said...

p.s. It will be very convenient since Rogue is Shrugs girlfriend.


Aravis said...

I'm so sorry that things didn't work out with Beloved. You sound well but it's going to be difficult while you adjust. I'm glad that the two of you will be able to remain friends; hopefully that will make it easier in the end. Know that you are loved and have friends here willing to listen and encourage.


Mark said...


I'm sorry A. I hope that one day it will be seen that this is the best thing for the both of you. if you ever need to talk, you know where I am, I have been there - I know what this type of thing is like.

Love from England,

Hyde said...

Wow. You sound great given the circumstances. I hope you're really ok. You have my number too, if you ever want to talk.


lots of love,

adem said...

I'm really sorry to hear that and that you're fine considering everything.

Be good.


LB said...

oh, blimey, I wasn't expecting that. There seems to be a fair bit of it about - must be something in the January air.

Glad you are both OK, though.

Anonymous said...

I'm really sorry to hear that news, Alecya...Hang in there, kiddo.


Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear that, I hope all is well.

HistoryGeek said...

Sorry to hear that, sweetie!

Hang in there.

Anonymous said...

being single is all I have ever known.

Anonymous said...

*Sigh* the same damned thing just happened to me.

If you want a shoulder to cry on, I have two serviceable ones right here for you.

swisslet said...

oh crap - how did I miss this news? Are you okay petal? I'm sorry to hear that, but the most important thing is that you are okay with it all and that you are alright.



(sorry to have taken so long to say this)